Sexual Reluctance in Women

Place of Transaction

Hospital

Anesthesia Type

Local

Processing Time

60 DK

Discharge Time

3-4 Hours

Activity Start

30 Days

One of the most important problems of sexual life is sexual reluctance in women. So, what do we recommend to our patients?

How to solve your sexuality problems?

What is sexual aversion?

First of all, if we look at the reasons related to sexual reluctance in women; We can show it as the decrease in sexual desire and its disappearance over time. Apart from this, the reluctance experienced can also be seen as a kind of arousal disorder. It’s not just not wanting to, it’s the same problem when the unwillingness is carried to the next level. The state of reluctance you experience can go as far as what we call disgust.

Direct sexual desire is defined as the desire to have intercourse with a partner. This is defined as normal, which is necessary for health. Sexual desire, which manifests itself in various ways, can be stimulated in different ways. Sexual desire may manifest itself in the form of fantasizing, increased interest in erotic content, dreaming. Stimulation of sexual desire can be through any of the five senses.

What could be the cause of sexual reluctance?

A very common question asked by our patients is why they experience sexual reluctance. The reason for this situation can be different for each patient. At the end of the examinations we do for this, we offer the reason directly for our patient. Experiencing different situations, biological problems, or a trauma in the past can cause a person to forget about sexuality. For this reason, clear information can only be provided after examining the individual situation.

The reason why you don’t want to have intercourse depends on the type of sexual aversion you are experiencing. We first examine our patients and then determine the type of reluctance they are experiencing. We take action to solve the problem by acting on the causes and consequences of this kind of problem.

Psychological Causes;

In general, this is attributed to psychological reasons.

  • Biological instinct
  • Lack of sufficient self-confidence
  • Lack of a healthy experience
  • Lack of suitable partner / inexperienced partner
  • Partners are unable to share not only sexually but also normally

The above are conditions that can cause sexual reluctance. If one or more of the factors appear in a woman, the person will feel incomplete and sexual life will be negatively affected.

Hormonal Imbalances;

Apart from psychological reasons, hormonal imbalances can also cause unwillingness to have intercourse.

Types of aversion

There are many different reasons for the reluctance you are experiencing. The types of sexual reluctance developed over these reasons are given below. According to the examples presented, we ensure that our patients are informed about the problem they are experiencing.

Primary: The first type of sexual aversion is the so-called primary type. It is defined as having no sexual desire at all. In general, our patients may experience this kind of reluctance during adolescence.

Secondary: A condition in which there was no problem before, but afterwards sexual desire gradually decreases. In this case, we inform our patients about excessive fatigue, life habits and reluctance caused by stress. With the elimination of the conditions, we aim to make the sexual desire the same as before.

The Most Common Type of Aversion in Women

Primary aversion. It is concluded that 20% of women in general experience this type of reluctance. Studies show that this condition increases with age. In the 18-24 age group, the rate is even higher for women. 32% of women experience this type of sexual aversion. Loss of sexual desire in women increases with age. 37.6% observed a decrease in sexual desire between the ages of 35 and 39.

How to Treat Sexual Reluctance?

So, how do we treat our patients? Is sexual aversion curable? It is among the questions our patients often ask us. When we look at it, we see that most of the time the reluctance experienced by our patients is psychological. 99% of sexual aversion can be treated psychologically.

Gynecologist

Psychologist

There are two methods the patient can choose for treatment. It is best to first contact a gynecologist to check whether there is a physical problem. If the problem is not physical, our colleagues will refer you directly to a psychologist.

The examination allows the doctors to determine the cause of the problem. If the source of the problem you are experiencing is psychology, the problem can be solved by applying sexual therapies. With a regular therapy process, the problem is solved.